Do Love Spells Work?

Do you think love spells work? Many people turn to love spells in an attempt to get their ex back or to get their crush to have feelings for them. Do you think it works? Or is it bogus?

Have You Cheated On Your Girlfriend/Boyfriend/Spouse?

Take the poll and scroll down for interesting facts about cheating!

Have You Cheated on a Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Spouse?

Facts About Cheating:

The Cheating is Common in France
The French are known as the world’s best lovers, but they might not be the most loyal. In fact, a French poll found that a majority of men and a third of women admitted to cheating on their partners. Infidelity has been on the rise in that country since the 1970s, when only about 19 percent admitted to cheating.

Facebook is Connected to Cheating
A new study published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking suggests that Facebook leads users to reconnect with old flings, which in turn, leads to more affairs, breakups, and divorces.

Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat
A cheater is cheating to fill a hole of need that’s not being filled in their current relationship. It’s not a sign of how much they feel for their spouse.

Men usually cheat with women they know
Most cheating happens with a friend, co-worker or someone close to the cheater.

Men cheat to save their marriages
Sometimes men cheat because they don’t know how to fix their relationship. So, they go outside of it to see if they can get their needs filled elsewhere and keep the relationship intact.

Men hate themselves after affairs
Men aren’t oblivious to the fact that once they have started cheating they feel like dirtbags. Men struggle with the moral weight of what they are doing to themselves and their spouse.

Women cheat just as much as men, and their affairs are more dangerous
Women actually cheat just as often as men but their affairs are more often emotional. Once they start investing emotionally outside the marriage, they have checked out of the marriage and the marriage is over.

Is He/She a Cheater?

Are you starting to wonder if your significant other might be cheating on you?  Here are some tell-tale signs that they just might be. Click through the slideshow below to see the red flags:

If you find that your significant other is displaying some of these cheating traits, consider confronting them about the signs you see and see how they respond. If necessary, do a little digging to see if you turn up anymore evidence of cheating. Cheating is a major relationship killer and it’s worth getting to the bottom of.

4 Reasons People Cheat

People are motivated by different things when they cheat, they may be bored with the current relationship or lack feelings of loyalty in general. Here are some of the most common reasons people cheat:

1. They feel something is missing. Everyone has different needs. They may think someone else will give them what they need. Something may be missing from their current relationship. When there are unmet needs in the current relationship that have gone on for too long, it can create a temptation to get those needs met somewhere else.

2. The desire to be with someone else. Even if you are happy in your current relationship someone else may seem more interesting and you naturally feel closer to that person. That feeling may cause certain emotions that lead to trouble. Sometimes a work relationship with someone else can turn into a relationship that has such strong feelings tht

3. Revenge – A partner may discover that the other partner has not been completely honest with them and they want to get even. Watch out because this can back fire and leads to unhappiness for both. Cheating and creating jealousy only weakens a relationship, it doesn’t strengthen it.

4. They don’t know what they really want. Maybe the cheating partner doesn’t really know what they’re looking for. Maybe they are being indecisive. They may be too immature and flighty to be in a committed relationship. If this is the case, the relationship may be unsaveable. Someone who is too immature to be in a committed relationship isn’t really someone that can be worked with.

If you’re in a relationship where your partner has cheated on you, evaluate the relationship and whether or not it is worth saving. Many marriage and long term relationships have survived a cheating partner but it does require work and genuine remorse and change from the cheating partner.

Quiz – How Controlling Are You?

Nobody really likes to feel like they have absolutely no control in a situation. While being able to take some control to organize and lead is a positive attribute, there is definitely a way to take being controlling too far. Do you think you’re too controlling?

What is a controlling person?
It’s someone who needs to have the people around him or her behave in certain ways and not in others. As we go through life we’ll deal with many types of people. A critical life skill for us to develop is the skill of managing our relationships. We must be able to know if someone is trying to control us, or worse.. if we are trying to control others!

They know your problem before you tell them
We come to those we love for advice, but a controller doesn’t give advice, they give solutions. They know that your problem is, how to fix it and expect you to do all they say to do so. There is no negotiating with this kind of person. They always know whats best.

They can’t understand why anyone would think differently than them
Ever heard the old saying “agree to disagree”? This would never fly with a controlling personality. They must argue their point until you decided to change your mind and agree with them. It’s basically a my way or the highway kind or situation.

They get angry when you don’t follow their advice
It’s just that. Controlling people get upset when you stray from exactly what they say. “Why would you even ask for advice if your are not going to follow it?”

They have rules and expect you to follow them
Folks who need to control other people make up universal rules and apply them to everybody. They don’t care what you think about their rules, it could be as silly as not answering text right away, or hugging a friend of the opposite sex, you’ll be judged on your adherence to them, either way!

Is Your Crush Into You?

Do you ever wonder if your crush is crushing on you? There are ways to tell!

Everyone at some point in time has had a crush on someone. The way those emotions seem to magically appear and grab a hold of your heart and mind without any heads up is so unfair! Even worse than that is having to fight those feelings. I mean let’s face it, it’s IMPOSSIBLE! It’s a win if you can get through a conversation without drooling, fumbling over words, or caught staring into their dreamy eyes.

When you realize you are crushing one someone, its SO hard to tell if the feeling is mutual. Of course there are signs and clues, like how they act or what they say, but some people are just so dang hard to read! There may even be times that your crush is feeling you too, but might be afraid of rejection, afraid of commitment, or doesn’t want anyone to know their true feelings. When the flutter in your stomach or shortness of breath creeps up on you, the only option is to let the crush run it’s courses and PRAY that your admirer reciprocates your feelings. They don’t call it a Love Game for nothin’.. GOOD LUCK!

Quiz – What Type of Dater Are You?

This quiz will not only help you determine what type of dater you are but also help you spot the type of dater you have sitting across from you! See what makes you tick when it comes to the dating world!

Here are some interesting dating statistics from eHarmony:

There are a lot of single people in America. In 2015, 50% of the U.S. population consisted of single adults, which has increased from 48% in 2011.

Here are some online dating statistics you should know:


There are 40 million Americans using online dating websites and those users range from young to old. Today, 27% of young adults report using online dating sites, which is up 10% from 2013, likely due to the influx of dating apps on smartphones. For those 55 to 64-year-olds that use online dating, there has been a 6% increase from 2013 to 2015.


Men make up 52.4 % of online dating users compared to 47.6% who are women. However these online dating statistics can change based on the site being used and location.


For women, online dating statistics show that a woman’s desirability online peaks at 21. But, at 26, women have more online pursuers than men whereas, at 48, men have twice as many online pursuers as women.


Here’s what they’re lying about:
20% of women surveyed by global research agency Opinionmatters admitted to using an older photo from when they were younger and thinner. More than 40% of men said they lied about their jobs in an effort to sound more successful.

Body Language Clues That Someone Is Into You

Wondering if someone you’re friends with is into you? One of the best ways to tell is by watching their body language. No matter how hard someone tries to hide their feelings, their body language will usually give them away. Look through the body language clues below and see how many of these your crush does around you.

Which Signs are You Incompatible With?

Aries – Cancer
You have a very outspoken and strong personality. This would be very overpowering to a Cancer who is more reserved and emotional. They require a lot more sympathy and reassurance than you would want to give.

Taurus – Leo
You’re very patient and responsible. Leos tend to be more high spirited and energetic. You are both very stubborn in your opinions so compromise and making a decision would be hard for you two.

Gemini – Virgo
You have a curious and inquisitive mind. Virgos would be too serious and practical for you. You like to be spontaneous and the analytical, worrying mind of a Virgo would not work well with that.

Cancer – Aries
With your reserved personality, a sign as bold as Aries would be very overwhelming for you. They would not be as patient with you emotions as you need.

Leo – Taurus
You both have very strong and different personalities, which will not work so well together when you have an argument. You’re free-spirited and might find it hard to be with a Taurus, who tends to be possessive and overprotective of their loved ones.

Virgo – Sagittarius
You like to have structure in your life, this will not mesh with an unpredictable Sagittarius. Their desire to explore and move could be incompatible with your organized lifestyle

Libra – Capricorn
You’re life has a good balance of work and play. It would be frustrating that Capricorns become very consumed in their work. You both have your own opinions and will fight to be in charge.

Scorpio – Aquarius
You are very in-tune with your emotions. Aquarius are very independent and tend to run from most emotional expression. It makes it very hard for the two of you to communicate because you have a hard time trusting them with your feelings.

Sagittarius – Pisces
You find your peace from travel and hands-on thinking, whereas Pisces is much more spiritual and intuitive. If may be hard for you to communicate because of your not so similar personalities.

Capricorn – Libra
You like to have down time and be alone which doesn’t match with Libra’s need to be social. You are very down-to-earth and that would cause complications with Libra’s free-spirited nature.

Aquarius – Scorpio
You’re thoughts and actions are driven by ration, in contrast, Scorpios are driven by their emotions. It is difficult for you two to find common ground and interest when you are motivated by different things. They also require a lot more alone time which may cause friction between you two.

Pisces – Gemini
Something you and Gemini have in common is that you are both very indecisive, this is a recipe for disaster. You enjoy your relaxation and downtime, whereas Geminis enjoy being social.